Being married to a Cuban can be an adventure full of surprises, and a Mexican woman made this clear in a video where she humorously recounted how her husband never directly apologizes but always finds clever ways to make her happy. “A Cuban won’t say ‘I’m sorry,’ but he’ll say something like, ‘Honey, did you see my gray sweater?’ He doesn't even need to; he’s not going anywhere, he’s just testing the waters because he’s already seen your face,” she explained in a playful tone, mimicking her partner’s tactics.
In the video, which quickly garnered hundreds of comments, he also mentioned that unexpected compliments are an infallible weapon: “He says, ‘Look, my girl is a knockout,’ and there you are, looking like a potato on the couch, all annoyed because he slipped up. But he knows that if he doesn't find a way to make you happy, he’ll end up without lunch and with dirty laundry.” Many users quickly found themselves identifying with this. “My husband does the same thing; he even tells me that old dish-washing robe looks nice on me,” commented one follower.
Additionally, she mentioned that Cubans resort to gestures like inviting someone to dinner to ease any tension. “Suddenly, they say to you: ‘Let’s go to that restaurant you love so much, because you cook a lot and need a break.’ It’s a way to put out the fire, because they know they can’t just say a simple ‘I’m sorry,’” she added, laughing. One user responded: “That’s exactly what happens to me. After every argument, the first thing he does is suggest we go out for dinner to make things right.”
The story also sparked laughter among those who joked about the “manual” that the Mexican seemed to have deciphered. “You’re exposing us to the world; we need to change our tactics,” one user joked. Another added, “You’re already ready for Cuban citizenship. You know us better than we know ourselves.” Even some confessed that these strategies have their charm. “That’s the beauty of it, apologizing in their own way, but always wanting to see you happy,” someone remarked.
While several affirmed that these tactics are real, others took the opportunity to laugh at the ingenuity of Cubans. "It's pure manipulation, but we love it. My husband tells me that even old rags look good on me," said one follower. Another joked, "You’re more Cuban than we are. Those techniques are straight out of a handbook."
Among the responses, phrases like: “The Cuban has such style when working the cloth”; “My God, I’m married to a Cuban and I feel the same way”; and “They don’t say sorry, but they always manage to get us to forgive them” stood out. For many, the anecdote reflected a deep affection behind the strategies.
"That's what I like, that even if they don't say 'sorry', in the end, they make you feel good," concluded the Mexican, emphasizing that despite cultural differences, love and humor are the glue that holds their relationship together.
Frequently Asked Questions About Multicultural Relationships and Cuban Customs
How do Cubans typically apologize in relationships?
Cubans often apologize indirectly using clever tactics such as giving unexpected compliments or inviting someone to dinner, rather than simply saying "I'm sorry." This strategy reflects a cultural approach that emphasizes easing tensions and maintaining harmony in relationships.
What tactics do Cubans use to reconcile after a disagreement?
Cubans often resort to gestures such as compliments, dinner invitations, or casual conversations to reconcile after a disagreement. These tactics aim to ease the atmosphere and avoid direct confrontations regarding the issue at hand.
What cultural differences stand out in couples formed by Cubans and individuals of other nationalities?
Common cultural differences include the use of certain expressions, the way apologies are made, and habits such as the passion for dominoes and the frequent consumption of strong coffee. These differences often lead to humorous yet enriching situations in multicultural relationships.
What aspects of Cuban culture tend to surprise foreign partners?
Aspects such as the ingenuity for problem-solving, the way to ask for forgiveness, and certain customs like drinking coffee at any time of the day often surprise foreign partners of Cubans. These cultural elements frequently lead to curiosity and mutual learning in relationships.
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