A Cuban woman confesses that she doesn't like being around Cubans: "The farther away, the better."

A viral TikTok video by @maymarqz02 has sparked a debate about Cuban identity in exile after the creator confessed to preferring to keep her distance from other Cubans due to negative personal experiences.


A TikTok video by user @maymarqz02 has sparked a heated debate on social media after the young Cuban confessed that, despite being born in Cuba, she does not enjoy being around other Cubans.

"I know that many Cubans will criticize me, but I don't like being around Cubans; the farther away, the better," he stated in the video that has garnered thousands of views and comments.

The young woman defended her position by stating that, in her experience, “where there are Cubans, there are rumors and they are always looking for problems.” Her words have sparked divided opinions, with some users advocating for her right to express her viewpoint, while others criticize her for generalizing and speaking negatively about her fellow countrymen.

Among the notable comments, one user replied: “I am Cuban and the last thing I would ever do, although you are not wrong, is to speak ill of my brothers publicly. We are pure pain and suffering.”

Another person added, "Mijitica, don't speak for all Cubans, you're mistaken." On the other hand, there were those who acknowledged that their perspective might be based on personal experiences: "Forgive me, but those are the Cubans you have encountered; there are many others who are still Cuban."

The video has brought to the forefront discussions on topics such as identity, cultural differences, and the dynamics within the Cuban diaspora. For many, the diversity of personalities within a community is inevitable, while others argue that the pride of being Cuban should not be overshadowed by individual experiences.

The user, however, has not directly responded to the comments, leaving the conversation open regarding how Cubans perceive and manage their relationship with their own community in exile.

This controversy highlights the tensions that can arise between personal experiences and collective identity, a theme that resonates strongly within migrant communities, especially those with deep cultural ties like the Cuban community.

Frequently Asked Questions about the Perception of Cubans Abroad and Dynamics within the Cuban Diaspora

Why does the young Cuban on TikTok prefer to be away from other Cubans?

The young Cuban expressed that she doesn't like being around other Cubans because, in her experience, "where there are Cubans, there is gossip, and they are always looking for trouble." This statement sparked a debate on social media, dividing opinions between those who understand her perspective and those who criticize her for generalizing.

What reactions has the video of the young Cuban generated on social media?

The video has sparked an intense debate among TikTok users. While some defend their right to express their opinions, others criticize them for speaking negatively about their fellow citizens and generalizing the attitudes of Cubans.

How is cultural identity connected to the personal experiences of Cubans living abroad?

The personal experiences of Cubans abroad can significantly influence their perception of cultural identity. The experiences and challenges faced outside of Cuba may lead some to disconnect from their roots, while others maintain a strong sense of belonging and cultural pride, which can create tensions within the Cuban diaspora.

What aspects of Cuban culture create divisions among emigrated Cubans?

Divisions among Cuban emigrants often arise from the differences in how each individual relates to their Cuban identity and the personal experiences they have had with other compatriots. Some may feel disconnected due to negative experiences, while others advocate for unity and cultural pride.

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Yare Grau

Originally from Cuba, I now live in Spain. I studied Social Communication at the University of Havana and later graduated in Audiovisual Communication from the University of Valencia. I am currently part of the CiberCuba team as a writer in the Entertainment section.