After 12 hours of work, this Cuban's only plan was to take a shower and relax, but an unexpected message changed her mood. "Not from my mom, nor my dad, nor my closest family," she clarifies in her account, but from a distant relative who bluntly asked her for a top-up.
Annoyed and still in bed, @solanssamper1998 said everything that many think but few say. “Now you remember I exist because you need a little top-up, my love? Don’t you see it’s 9:25 in the evening and I just finished working since 9 in the morning?” With unfiltered phrases, she made it clear that those “just 20 dollars” that were requested had to be earned by her.
The young woman shared that while others have time for parties and relaxation, she can barely recover from exhaustion. “How can you so casually ask me for a small favor?” she questions, clearly annoyed, before telling that relative to “find a map and figure out where and when they are.”
The video, which quickly went viral, sparked a wave of reactions among the followers of @solanssamper1998. Many users shared similar experiences, stating that distant relatives always appear when they need something. "They think money falls from the sky here, but there's never a shortage when it comes to parties," commented one person; another added, "The worst part is that they get upset if you tell them no."
Others joked about strategies to avoid these situations: “That's why I'm a tourist, I don't know anyone and I block.” Meanwhile, some, like @solanssamper1998, agreed that close family never asks for anything, and it's "the ghosts" who appear the most.
Whatever the case, the experience of this Cuban left many wanting to vent and share their own stories. Who hasn’t received a message like that at some point?
Frequently Asked Questions about Family Tensions and Economic Demands of Cubans Abroad
Why do some Cubans in the United States feel frustrated with the demands of their relatives in Cuba?
Many Cubans in the United States feel frustrated because, despite the economic sacrifice involved in working long hours to send support, they often do not receive gratitude from their family members in Cuba. The lack of empathy and unrealistic expectations that emigrants should financially support their relatives contribute to this frustration.
What sacrifices do Cuban emigrants face in the United States?
Cuban emigrants in the United States face challenges such as working long hours, often in multiple jobs, to meet the high cost of living. They must balance their personal expenses with the expectations for financial support from their relatives in Cuba, which can be a significant emotional and financial burden.
How do economic tensions affect familial relationships between Cubans in the U.S. and Cuba?
Economic tensions can strain family relationships due to a lack of reciprocity and understanding. Emigrants feel that their efforts are not appreciated, while their relatives in Cuba often hold high and unrealistic expectations regarding the financial capacity of those living abroad.
What steps can Cuban emigrants take to manage their families' expectations?
To manage expectations, Cuban emigrants can set clear boundaries regarding the financial assistance they can provide. It is important to openly communicate their own needs and financial challenges, so that their family members in Cuba understand the reality of their situation abroad.
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