Cuban abroad shares touching video of her mother tying a scarf on her son while in tears in Cuba: "Damn distance."

A Cuban mother abroad shares a video where her mother in Cuba places the pioneer scarf on her grandson. The touching gesture highlights the sacrifice of families separated by emigration.

Cuban boyPhoto © @mirandajessika1992 / TikTok

A Cuban mother living abroad touched the hearts of dozens of users on social media after sharing an emotional video in which her mother, who is in Cuba, places a red pioneer scarf on her grandson at a primary school in the country.

The moment was captured in a video posted on the child’s mother’s account, TikTok @mirandajessika1992, where the little one is seen crying as his grandmother adjusts the scarf around his neck, kisses him, consoles him, and offers words of encouragement in a moment filled with nostalgia and tenderness.

"Congratulations my pioneer. Damn distance, we'll see each other soon my baby," wrote the Cuban mother in the video's description, which quickly garnered reactions of support and admiration for the gesture of the grandmother, who has taken care of the child in Cuba while her daughter fights for a better future abroad.

Dozens of users praised the grandmother's role in the child's upbringing, and many expressed feeling a connection to the sacrifices made by countless Cuban mothers who must separate from their children in order to provide better opportunities for them from other countries.

"What luck to have a grandmother like that," "I cried watching this video, blessings to that family," and "that child will know how much he is loved," were some of the comments left by internet users moved by the scene.

The red scarf represents the official admission of Cuban children to the José Martí Pioneer Organization, a symbolic rite of passage that, in this case, also became a painful reminder of families separated by emigration.

Frequently Asked Questions about Family Separation in Cuba Due to Migration

What does the red scarf represent in Cuban schools?

The red scarf is a symbol of entry into the José Martí Pioneer Organization in Cuba, marking a rite of passage for children in primary schools. This act, in addition to being a school ceremony, can become an emotional moment for families, especially those separated by emigration.

How does migration affect Cuban families?

Migration deeply impacts Cuban families, creating prolonged separations that emotionally affect both those who remain on the island and those who emigrate. Many families seek ways to stay connected through gifts, surprises, and reunions, which become very meaningful moments.

What role do grandmothers play in raising children in Cuba?

Grandmothers in Cuba often play a crucial role in raising their grandchildren, especially when parents emigrate in search of better opportunities. This family support is vital for the emotional and social development of children, fostering strong emotional bonds amidst economic hardships and family separation.

How is emotional distance reflected on social media?

Social media has become a space where Cuban families share moments of love and nostalgia, reflecting the emotional distance that physical separation entails. Videos of reunions, surprises, and gifts sent from abroad are common and generate empathy and support among users.

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Yare Grau

Originally from Cuba, but living in Spain. I studied Social Communication at the University of Havana and later graduated in Audiovisual Communication from the University of Valencia. I am currently part of the CiberCuba team as an editor in the Entertainment section.