A Venezuelan identified on TikTok as @yorlysleon has sparked extensive debate on social media after sharing a video in which she explains the four favors she has decided not to do again in the United States. As she recounts, her experiences with certain individuals led her to make these decisions to avoid uncomfortable situations and conflicts.
In the video, he outlines his list and the reasons behind each choice
Do not receive anyone in your home. She explained that in the past she offered free accommodation for three months to those who arrived without means. However, when she asked them to become independent, some made her feel like she was responsible for the problem. "I welcomed them, provided three months of completely free housing, and when I told them they needed to become independent, I was the bad one," she remarked.
Do not lend money. It indicates that, in their experience, many people are quick to ask for financial help, but when the time comes to repay the money, the situation becomes awkward. "They are good at asking, but when you go to collect, you're the bad one and you're the arrogant one," they expressed.
Do not lend your documents for transactions. She explains that she decided not to provide her identification for the purchase of cars, phones, or insurance, since when someone fails to make payments, she ends up being responsible. "Neither to get a car, nor to buy a phone, and certainly not to insure or put a car in my name," she stated. According to her testimony, many people default on payments and then simply abandon their responsibility, affecting her credit history. "When they can't pay that bill, they hand over that property and you have to take responsibility, regardless of the damage to your credit," lamented Yorlys Leon.
Do not recommend anyone for jobs. This is the fourth favor that I would not repeat. "When they are not interested or do not like the job, they simply leave and do not care about what you might have done for them. They leave you in a bad position," he said.
The video has generated mixed reactions. Some people support its stance, arguing that certain experiences can lead one to set boundaries to avoid inconveniences. Others believe that this perspective could shut out opportunities for those who truly need help.
What do you think about their experience?
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What similarities exist between the experiences shared by other Latinos in the U.S. regarding favors?
Like Yorlys Leon, other Latinos in the U.S. have shared similar experiences, highlighting the emotional and financial strain they face when helping others without receiving the gratitude or reciprocity they expect. Many have decided to stop welcoming people into their homes, lending money, or recommending jobs in order to avoid conflicts and misunderstandings.
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