The Cuban actress Judith González, known for her popular character Magdalena La Pelúa, shared a video on her TikTok account in which she delivered a direct message to separated mothers who are experiencing conflicts with their children's father's new partner, even when they themselves have moved on in their romantic lives.
In the video, González invites viewers to reflect on the resentments that can arise after a separation, especially when the father's new partner has a good relationship with the children and is involved in their care.
"You don't get along with the mother of your children's father, you don't get along with him, he's remarried, he has a new relationship, you have a relationship, but you don't get along with her. She is a good person; she takes care of your children," the actress states.
Far from blaming the new partner, the comedian encourages mothers going through this situation to reflect on the true source of their discomfort: "The problem lies with you, something is happening within you. Sit quietly and ask yourself: What’s going on with me? What is the anger?"
One of the most striking moments comes when González poses a question that might be uncomfortable for some women: “The resentment you have, do you still like the father of your children? Such things can happen.”
The actress also points out that these attitudes can create discomfort even in the mother's current romantic relationship: "Your husband notices and says: Come here, what's your problem that you don't get along with that woman? That woman hasn't done anything to you."
For González, the most important thing is that children can enjoy a peaceful coexistence in both homes, without being caught up in the adults' conflicts. In this regard, he cites new couples as an example, highlighting those who care for the children, attend to their needs, and even create their own space for them in the home.
"The children live happily, they take care of them, they even made her a room over there in the house and everything, and you keep ignoring that woman," she comments.
The interpreter of Magdalena La Pelúa concludes her reflection with an invitation to let go of negative feelings and think of the little ones: "Sit down, take a moment to reflect, and do it for yourself, and then, please, forgive, think of your children."
The message was also reflected in the description of the post: "Try to heal for your own sake, first and foremost, and for the sake of your children."
The video has generated interest on TikTok, where, according to the initial figures, it surpassed 61,500 views, garnered nearly 3,900 likes, and received over 300 comments.
Judith González, born in Ciego de Ávila and residing in Miami since the mid-nineties, has shared on various occasions experiences related to her sentimental and family life. The actress, mother of two children, has spoken publicly about her divorces and the lessons her relationships have taught her.
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