The Cuban Aniadys, who resides in the United States, shared a reflection on TikTok about the criticisms often faced by those who visit their families in Cuba. In the video, the young woman expressed her frustration with such comments and defended everyone's right to travel without being judged.
"Sir, how ugly it is for a Cuban to criticize another," Aniadys remarked at the beginning of the video, referring to how on social media, when sharing photos from a family trip, it is not uncommon to receive comments like, "Why did you look back?", "Why didn't you stay there?", or "Stay and cultivate the land." With evident indignation, she questioned this attitude, pointing out that instead of wishing well for those who return to see their loved ones, some choose to criticize or wish harm.
In her message shared on her profile @aniadys_aaa, she also noted that as a U.S. citizen, she is not violating any regulations by traveling to Cuba and that visiting family is not a crime. "Those who go to see their family are not committing any offense," she stated. Although she acknowledged that laws could change in the future, she emphasized that there is no need to wish ill on others.
The video, which has generated over 1,100 likes and dozens of comments, has sparked strong support from its followers. “There’s no worse criticism than that from one of your own, don’t pay attention and keep making your lovely videos”; “It's sad that we Cubans hurt each other like this”; “That’s what someone who can’t achieve it says, girl, and it bothers them to see others' success”; and “Anyone who has family and loves them felt the same way I did, my eyes filled with tears,” wrote some users.
In addition, many highlighted their connection to their roots and the authenticity of their videos. "I loved your video, your naturalness, the fact that you love your family and never forget your roots"; "I subscribe to your channel, I see that you have Cuban recipes"; and "Many blessings to you and your lovely family, my dear, keep being yourself."
Others reflected on what they considered a lack of support among Cubans themselves. “Our race is failing more every day; how sad it is to see that we are unable to unite”; “The same happens; even if you go for a stroll, it’s your right to go wherever you want, we are free”; and “People are so envious and spiteful; don’t pay them any mind, just keep being happy,” several commented.
With this video, Aniadys sparked a debate on the importance of family and the need to move past destructive criticism to, as she herself stated, support others instead of attacking them.
Frequently Asked Questions about Criticisms of Cubans Traveling to Cuba
Why do some Cubans criticize those who travel to Cuba?
Criticism directed at those who travel to Cuba is often based on prejudices and the mistaken belief that supporting family means supporting the Cuban regime. Many Cubans abroad face criticism from their own compatriots for visiting family, which is seen as a betrayal of the cause against the regime. However, for many, traveling is an act of love and responsibility towards their loved ones.
Is it legal for Cubans in the United States to travel to Cuba?
Yes, it is legal for Cubans in the United States to travel to Cuba as long as they comply with current regulations. Although laws can change, there are currently no restrictions preventing U.S. citizens, including naturalized Cubans, from visiting the island to see their family members.
What do Cubans abroad think about the criticisms of their trips to Cuba?
Many Cubans abroad defend their right to travel to Cuba and assist their families, emphasizing that it is not about supporting the regime. Most believe that the criticisms are unfounded and prefer to focus on the well-being of their loved ones. In general, Cubans in exile argue that personal decisions regarding visits to family should not be subject to judgment.
Why is it important for Cubans to visit their family in Cuba?
Visiting family in Cuba is essential for maintaining emotional bonds and providing financial and emotional support to loved ones. For many Cubans abroad, trips to the island are a way to be present in their relatives' lives, despite the distance and the political and economic challenges faced on both sides.
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