"It has become quite complicated for me": Cuban in the USA shares which job is the most exhausting

A Cuban woman in the U.S. shares her experience as a housewife, caring for her son and her grandmother. Her video on TikTok highlights the importance of domestic work and has resonated with many women.


A Cuban woman living in the United States has touched the hearts of many on TikTok with a video where she sincerely and charmingly shares what it means to be a housewife, caring for her young son and her 87-year-old grandmother all at once.

"The most exhausting job that exists is that of running a household, and I don't intend to debate it with anyone.", says Laurita (@laury0605), who explains that she has a four-year-old child and that seven months ago she brought her grandmother from Cuba to take care of her as well.

With a cheerful tone and no dramatics, she insists that loud music is a must while cleaning, because "a respectable Cuban woman has to play her music loud to keep the house really clean." For her, maintaining a spirit and a positive attitude is key to getting through each day.

Laurita feels fortunate to be able to work from home, although she acknowledges that many times the routine overwhelms her. "I feel like I don't have time for myself and the house consumes me too much," she confesses, but then she quickly expresses gratitude for not having to leave her son in daycare or her grandmother in someone else's care.

The video sparked a wave of reactions, particularly from women who saw themselves reflected in its words. “That's right, we have to do double the work,” commented one user. Another wrote: “And then they say that those of us who stay at home don't work.”

From expressions of gratitude to messages of support, the TikTok community responded with warmth to this Cuban woman's experience, giving a voice to many mothers who, from the intimacy of their homes, uphold the rhythm of their families.

Frequently Asked Questions about the Exhausting Work of Cuban Housewives in the United States

Why does Laurita consider that being a housewife is the most exhausting job?

Laurita believes that the most exhausting job is that of a housewife because it involves taking care of her young child, her 87-year-old grandmother, and handling all the household chores, with no breaks or days off. This constant burden and lack of personal time make her consider it the most exhausting work.

How does music influence Laurita's mood while she carries out household chores?

Laurita asserts that loud music is key to maintaining a good spirit and a positive attitude while she cleans her house. As a Cuban, she believes that playing her "music really loud" is essential for keeping the house clean and facing daily life with joy.

What reactions has Laurita's video on TikTok generated?

The video featuring Laurita has generated a flood of reactions, especially from women who relate to her situation. Many comments express support and gratitude for giving a voice to mothers who keep their families running from home. Users share the sentiment that household tasks are often undervalued.

How do Laurita's experiences compare with those of other Cuban mothers in the United States regarding work at home?

Both Laurita and other Cuban mothers in the United States, like @lil_liet and @mavelmarketing, share the perception that working from home is constant, exhausting, and undervalued. Despite the challenges, they appreciate being able to be close to their children and family. These stories reflect the daily struggle and sacrifice of many women to balance work and family in a foreign country.

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Izabela Pecherska

Editor at CiberCuba. Graduated in Journalism from the Rey Juan Carlos University of Madrid, Spain. Editor at El Mundo and PlayGround.