When an American young woman's boyfriend went on a trip to Japan without her, he probably didn’t imagine that this detail would end up in a crash course on “how to set boundaries” courtesy of a Cuban. The moment, recorded on video and uploaded to social media by user @miss_katherine_, quickly went viral.
Katherine, a Cuban residing in Louisville, couldn't hide her surprise when her coworker told her that her partner had gone on a trip with his mother, but without her. To make matters worse, he called her to say he would be going to a party.
The gringa replied that she didn't feel comfortable with the idea, but that in the end it was “her decision.” That phrase was the trigger for Katherine to bring out her straightforward style and teach her, in good Cuban fashion, how she should respond: “You’re not going at all.”
Amid laughter, the American repeats the phrase with the correct intonation, while her friend applauds her for learning to say things "the right way." The video quickly filled with supportive comments, many from Cuban women who felt a connection.
“Cuban role model”, “She puts her in her place in two languages” or “She already speaks Cuban fluently” were some of the most repeated phrases among the hundreds of users who enjoyed the cultural clash and the rapid adaptation of the American.
What started as an informal chat among friends ended up becoming a viral lesson: sometimes what is needed is not a diplomatic piece of advice, but a Cuban nearby to teach you how to speak clearly.
Frequently Asked Questions about the Use of Cuban Language and Cultural Differences
What advice did the Cuban woman give to her American friend when her boyfriend went on a trip without her?
The Cuban advised him to say "You're not going at all" in response to her boyfriend's decision to travel without her. This advice reflects a straightforward and candid approach, characteristic of the Cuban communication style.
Why are social media users drawn to these cultural exchange videos?
Users are drawn to the authenticity and humor present in these videos. The shared experiences of learning and cultural adaptation resonate with many individuals who have gone through similar situations, fostering a sense of community and connection.
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