A Cuban who lived in the United States has made a splash on TikTok after posting a video where she candidly reflects on the challenges of adapting to life in the United States. From her account, @yeniacubita, she has touched the hearts of thousands with a testimony that exposes the darker sides of the American dream.
“We think that because we have sold clothes or done business in Cuba, we can dominate the world, but when we arrive here, the reality is different,” she states calmly. “We are illiterate professionals, we struggle with technology, and everything is difficult for us.”
This Cuban, who now lives in Ecuador, shares how many migrants face the frustration of not being able to help their families on the island immediately, which generates anxiety, isolation, and feelings of helplessness. "You can't even teach someone to drive, you're trapped at home, waiting... and that waiting drives you crazy," she laments.
Yenia recounts that, although she manages to find work, the initial effort does not translate into stability: “Your first paycheck arrives, and it's not enough to cover expenses, but you also haven't been home, nor with your children, nor with your partner. And on top of that, in Cuba they still need you.”
According to his experience, many end up sacrificing their lives in order to send money to the island. "We prefer to go to Cuba, we prefer to send money rather than enjoy it. And that's how our lives slip away," he confesses.
Despite the harsh tone, his reflection concludes with a message that resonates with the migrant community: "Helping is not wrong, but remember: if you are well, those around you will be better. You need to live."
With nearly 800 thousand views and hundreds of comments, her video became a mirror for thousands of migrants. “The truth of a Cuban in a single video”, wrote an affected user. Others added: “This is how we all live,” “I got teary-eyed,” or “That is the reality for those of us far away.” There were also more critical or divided opinions, but everyone agrees on one thing: her message left no one indifferent.
Frequently asked questions about Cuban emigration and its impact on family life
Why do Cubans emigrate to the United States and other countries?
Cuban emigrants seek better life opportunities, access to quality basic services such as education and healthcare, and to escape economic hardship and the lack of freedoms in Cuba. The pursuit of a better future for themselves and their families is a common motivation among Cuban emigrants.
What are the emotional and economic challenges faced by Cuban emigrants when helping their families in Cuba?
Cuban emigrants face challenges such as criticism for sending aid and the pressure to meet the demands of their relatives. The distance can create feelings of guilt and abandonment, both for them and for their families on the island. Additionally, they must deal with high living costs in their countries of residence, which complicates the ongoing support to their loved ones in Cuba.
How does emigration affect Cuban families that remain on the island?
Emigration can be a crucial source of economic support for families in Cuba, as emigrants often send remittances and packages with food and other essential goods. However, it can also create emotional tensions and family conflicts due to the expectations and demands placed on emigrants.
What advice is offered to Cubans emigrating to improve their adaptation?
Some advice includes having concrete goals, such as saving for basic needs, being a good worker, taking care of your job, and prioritizing personal well-being before financially assisting family in Cuba. It is important not to be overwhelmed by depression or idealized expectations, and to follow your own path.
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