"This country takes away all your desires, you become bitter, more bitter than a Cuban lemon." This is how Cuban creator @lachiwow described his feelings about living in the United States. In a video that has already garnered 87,000 views and has been shared over 2,000 times, the creator, with his unique blend of humor and venting, criticized what he describes as a routine and disconnected life.
"It's from home to work, from work to the market, from the market to cooking, and that's it," he said, visibly excited. "Not even the dogs bark here, nor do the cats say meow. I wonder if they're mute or just more polite than we are," he added, eliciting laughter and reflection among those who heard him.
The creator also emphasized how this life impacts even personal relationships: "By the time you get home from work, after your boss has squeezed the life out of you, after they've drained you and turned you into orange juice, you arrive home and you don't even want your partner to look at you. That's why it becomes a monotony: work, home, home, work, and a simple 'hello' to your partner, nothing more."
The video sparked thousands of comments from those who agreed with his words and those who criticized him for complaining. One user remarked, "That's how we all are, on the verge of a heart attack from so much stress." Another user added, "I thought it was just me, but it’s widespread. How sad, my God!" From Spain, someone joined the debate saying, "I support your comment. I live here, but I went to the U.S. with the intention of staying, and when I saw the way of life, I returned to Spain."
On the other hand, there were those who defended life in the United States. "It's a country full of opportunities; you achieve your goals with a lot of effort. Blessings," wrote one person. Others, however, responded with humor: "Not even cats say meow, I died from that!" or "Daddy, if you want, I’ll give you a rope."
The creator did not hold back and responded to several comments with his characteristic humor. To those who asked him to return to Cuba, he replied, "Don't say a word, I'll send them to the pen." He also took the opportunity to invite his followers to share the video and follow him on other platforms.
Meanwhile, the video continues to spark debate. Some assert that what @lachiwow describes is "the plain reality," while others believe he is exaggerating. But one thing is certain: the routine criticized by the creator has struck a chord with thousands of people who say they are experiencing the same.
What do you think? Is life really like that in the Yuma, or do you believe that routine depends on the individual?
Frequently asked questions about the lives of Cuban immigrants in the United States
Why do some Cuban immigrants feel that life in the United States is monotonous?
Some Cuban immigrants feel that life in the United States is monotonous due to the daily routine focused on work and household chores, with little social interaction. This monotony is exacerbated by the lack of social life compared to Cuban culture, where community interactions are more frequent and vibrant.
What are the main criticisms of Cuban immigrants towards other members of their community in the U.S.?
Cuban immigrants often criticize the lack of support they receive from their fellow countrymen upon arriving in the United States. It is noted that they sometimes face mistreatment or indifference even from people of their own country, who should offer them assistance due to their shared experience. This lack of solidarity is seen as a betrayal, especially when newcomers are in their first jobs and need guidance.
How does family pressure affect Cubans living in the United States?
Family pressure affects Cubans in the United States because they are expected to send financial support and goods to their families in Cuba, which can lead to stress and frustration. Many feel that their relatives do not understand the difficulties they face abroad and that the expectations are unrealistic, which can strain family relationships.
What advice is given to Cubans who want to succeed in the United States?
To succeed in the United States, Cubans are advised to maintain a positive mindset and be willing to work hard. Learning English and adapting to the local culture are essential. It is also important to establish support networks, seek job opportunities in accessible sectors, and develop skills that are in demand in the U.S. job market.
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