"As long as I have these two hands, I work for them": Cuban in the U.S. responds to criticism for sending aid to her family in Cuba

"Many Cubans who have a heart find happiness only in sending a few things to those poor people over there who have nothing."


La Cubanita Soñadora, a young Cuban known on TikTok as @laflak1304, has sparked an intense debate with her strong response to those who criticize Cubans sending aid to their families on the island. Her message, which does not hide the emotions this issue evokes in her, has deeply resonated with her followers, who have flooded the comments with support.

“Mira, young man, that you don’t have family in Cuba, that you don’t have a son, that you don’t have a mother, that you don’t have a father, that you don’t have a grandmother, who gave their lives for you, who supported your entire education while you were in school, who gave you everything, who would go without a piece of chicken to give it to you, you brat, they did everything for you. If you don’t have that, you should keep your mouth shut. You shut up, look, close that little mouth of yours, my love,” expressed the Cuban, who lives in the United States and has I220A status, with determination in her video, which has already garnered hundreds of views and comments.

At another moment, she explained her unwavering commitment to her family: “Many mothers and many good daughters, many Cubans who have a heart, the only thing that brings us happiness is sending a few little things to those poor people we have over there who have nothing. As long as I have these two hands here, these frail hands you see here, and I can work, I will work for them. I send food, I send clothes, I send whatever is needed, because my mom, my sister, my family are over there.”

The reactions from her followers came in quickly. One user commented, “I send my family whatever they need. That's why we came and sacrificed ourselves here.” Another expressed, “There are people who have no feelings, but those of us with family do whatever it takes for them.” Another person emphasized, “Family comes first; let the rest say whatever they want. No one knows the sacrifices we make here to help our loved ones over there.”

Among the comments, there were also reflections on the criticism faced by those who help: “Whoever says that has no heart. I send what I can because I know my mom and my kids need me. I don’t care what others think,” stated one user. Another added: “Those who criticize are the ones who forget their roots. We work hard so that our family back home can live a little better.”

In his video, @laflak1304 also delivered a direct message to those who use political arguments to justify their lack of support for their families: "The people who talk like you, always thinking about communism, for sure you’re one of those who goes to Cuba, rents a car from the communists, engages in speculation, and talks nonsense. And here you live in a damn shack and go there to speculate, that's for sure. So, talking nonsense about sending... Shut your mouth, kid, shut your mouth, the best thing you can do is keep your mouth shut."

To conclude his reflection, he reaffirmed: “As long as I have the means to do it, I will. Whatever you say. If I can send them even just a food pack or a blouse to my sister, I will, because that’s what makes me happy.”

Users continued to fill the comments with messages of support. One person stated, “As long as I can work, my family will not go without. I don’t do this for recognition; it’s how I was raised.” Another commented, “We are criticized by those who have forgotten where they came from, but I don’t care. My parents and my children are my priority.”

This topic has sparked an ongoing debate among emigrated Cubans, but the message from La Cubanita Soñadora has inspired many to continue supporting their families on the island, clearly conveying that they do so out of love and commitment to their loved ones.

Frequently Asked Questions about Sending Assistance to Family Members in Cuba

Why do Cubans abroad send assistance to their relatives in Cuba?

For many Cubans in the diaspora, sending aid to their relatives in Cuba is a responsibility and an act of love. Despite criticism and political difficulties, they prioritize the well-being of their loved ones over any ideological debate, ensuring that their families do not lack the essentials.

What are the main criticisms faced by Cubans who send aid to their families on the island?

The most common criticisms come from both other Cubans abroad and those on the island. Some argue that aid shipments indirectly support the Cuban regime, while others criticize the alleged excessive demands from the relatives receiving the aid. However, many people defend their decision to help, prioritizing family welfare.

What challenges do Cubans face when sending aid to their families in Cuba?

Sending aid to Cuba involves logistical and emotional challenges. Emigrants must plan and ration products due to weight and cost restrictions. Additionally, there is constant emotional pressure to send more than one can and to cope with criticism or lack of appreciation from some family members.

How does the aid sent from abroad affect families in Cuba?

The aid sent from abroad has a significant impact on the quality of life for families in Cuba. Many Cubans rely on these remittances and packages to meet their basic needs, highlighting the economic precariousness on the island and the importance of ongoing family support.

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