A video posted on TikTok by the Cuban user @yamilka.echevarra has caused a major stir on social media, amassing thousands of views and comments.
In the clip, the woman issues a stern warning to Cubans in exile about the experience of bringing family or acquaintances from the island to the United States.
"To all my friends who, like me, keep bringing people from there. Don't bring anyone, no one. Don't waste money for no reason, it's not worth it," the Cuban expressed with evident frustration.
In her testimony, the woman explains how her perception of helping others to emigrate has changed, stating that many of those who receive support show neither gratitude nor commitment once they arrive in the U.S.
"When they are in Cuba, they love you, adore you, write to you every day; you are the sun. When they are here, you are just one more person. First, they don’t want to work. I’m not generalizing; I’m just sharing what I experienced," the user recounted in her video.
Additionally, she insisted that the people she helped not only ignored her but also did not follow her advice or show any interest in integrating or collaborating. "They will make you look bad at all times; they will not count on you to do anything," she added.
The Cuban woman mentioned that she helped two people emigrate, but she lamented that one of them, in particular, caused her great suffering. "That’s when my life became a martyrdom," she confessed.
The video has sparked an intense debate on social media, with users supporting its testimony and others arguing that each experience is different and should not be generalized. Nevertheless, its message has resonated with many Cubans in exile who have gone through similar situations with relatives or friends they have helped emigrate.
The phenomenon of Cubans helping others to leave the island has been a common practice for decades. However, the challenges of adapting to a new country and cultural differences can create conflicts and misunderstandings between those who provide support and those who receive it.
The video continues to accumulate views and comments, bringing to light a topic that many Cubans have experienced but few dare to express publicly.
Frequently Asked Questions about Cuban Emigration to the United States
Why do some Cubans in the U.S. advise against bringing relatives from the island?
Some Cubans in the U.S. advise against bringing family members from the island because they have experienced a lack of gratitude and commitment from the newcomers. Additionally, many face difficulties in adapting, which leads to tensions and conflicts with those who help them. This is reflected in testimonies such as that of Yamilka Echevarría, who expressed her frustration at not receiving the expected support from the people she helped emigrate.
What are the main challenges for Cubans newly arriving in the U.S.?
The main challenges for Cubans newly arrived in the U.S. include adapting to the language and culture, finding employment, and becoming economically established. Additionally, they face expectations of cooperation from their hosts, which can lead to tensions if they are unable to settle in quickly. The lack of support from their fellow countrymen and the perception of ingratitude also contribute to these difficulties.
What impact does emigration have on Cuban families?
Emigration has a significant impact on Cuban families, creating an emotional and economic burden for those who remain on the island. Emigrants often send money and resources, leading to expectations and, at times, tensions due to constant demands. The perception that emigrants must support their families in Cuba can be a source of conflict.
How are the attitudes of newly arrived Cubans in the U.S. perceived?
The attitudes of newly arrived Cubans in the U.S. are often perceived as problematic due to unrealistic expectations and a lack of gratitude. Some migrants feel that newcomers expect to receive support without putting in effort, which creates tension. However, there are also those who acknowledge that each experience is unique and that many newcomers are grateful and hardworking.
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