"Don’t be swayed by the mediocre": Cuban woman earns applause with her opinion on 50/50 in relationships

A Cuban woman goes viral on TikTok with her critique of the 50/50 debate in couples, advocating for flexibility based on income and the importance of commitment. Her heartfelt message receives massive support.

Cuban in the United StatesPhoto © TikTok / @puntoenboca01

A Cuban woman went viral on TikTok after sharing a strong opinion on the famous "50/50" debate in romantic relationships. Her message, direct and unfiltered, has been applauded by thousands of users who see her as a sensible voice amid so much emotional controversy.

"Don't let yourself be guided by the mediocre. Those who say that if their husband comes with 50/50, they press the button… have neither family, home, nor commitment to anything," she said in the video, which has over 100,000 views on TikTok.

The woman, known as @puntoenboca01, argued that a couple should be a team and that the division of expenses depends on each person's capabilities. “If you earn more, then it will be 70/30. But if you’re focused and there’s love, that doesn’t even need to be discussed,” she stated naturally.

The reactions were immediate. Amid applause, laughter, and even digital declarations of love, hundreds of users celebrated the Cuban's message. “I got up from the bathroom to applaud,” one person humorously wrote. Another remarked, “A woman like you needs to be treated with flowers… and breakfast in bed.”

Several shared their own life stories. “My wife earns more than I do, and sometimes she contributes 90%. So what? This is for both of us,” commented a user. “We've been together for 10 years, and we've always divided according to what we can. Sometimes one contributes more, sometimes the other, but we never stop fighting together,” added another.

There were those who summed it all up in a single phrase: “Everything that is mine belongs to my wife, and what is hers, too,” one wrote amidst laughter. Another was more direct: “The one who can't handle 50/50 is surely paying 100% on her own.”

The video also sparked some memorable remarks. "I already sent this video to my wife, let's see if it gets her excited and she pays for Netflix this month," joked one follower. Meanwhile, another said, "First woman on TikTok who speaks logically. You deserve a medal… and a joint account."

The truth is that this is not the first time the 50/50 topic has sparked heated discussions among Cubans on social media. From those who believe that the man should take on everything, to those who advocate for financial equity as the foundation of a modern relationship. The difference is that this Cuban woman voiced what many think, but few dare to say out loud.

What do you think? Is love measured in percentages or in real commitment? What is clear is that this video struck a chord and many agree with it.

Frequently asked questions about the 50/50 debate in romantic relationships

What did the viral Cuban from TikTok think about the 50/50 in couples?

The viral Cuban on TikTok expressed that the division of expenses in a couple should depend on each person's capabilities and not strictly adhere to a 50/50 split. She argued that what matters is that the couple functions as a team and that love and commitment are more significant than a precise equitable distribution.

How did users react to the Cuban's opinion on the 50/50?

The reaction was positive, with many users applauding their message. Comments included applause, laughter, and even declarations of digital love, showing a broad agreement with the idea that love and commitment should not be measured in rigid percentages.

What is the general stance on the distribution of expenses in Cuban couples on social media?

In social media, the debate about the division of expenses in Cuban couples is intense. Some people believe that the man should bear the majority of the expenses, while others advocate for financial equity as the foundation of a modern and healthy relationship.

What arguments do those who advocate for financial equity in relationships use?

Those who advocate for financial equity in relationships argue that a couple should operate as a team and that the distribution of expenses should be adjusted to each person's financial capabilities, thereby promoting collaboration and mutual support.

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Izabela Pecherska

Editor at CiberCuba. Graduated in Journalism from the Rey Juan Carlos University of Madrid, Spain. Editor at El Mundo and PlayGround.