"We've known each other for over 15 years": Cuban woman in the U.S. responds to criticism about her long-distance relationship with her boyfriend in Cuba

The Cuban @lisiminivlog defends her long-distance relationship with her boyfriend in Cuba on TikTok in the face of criticism. She emphasizes the support she's received and chooses to focus on positive content without responding to negative comments.

Cuban couplePhoto © @lisiminivlog / TikTok

A young Cuban woman known on TikTok as @lisiminivlog has shared a video in which she defends her long-distance relationship with her partner in Cuba, after receiving numerous criticisms on social media.

"Ninety miles apart: John in Miami, my boyfriend in Cuba. A long-distance relationship for over a year and a half. We have known each other for more than 15 years and have a very sweet, stable, healthy relationship, with many people around us who support us and wish us many beautiful things," the young woman expressed in her post.

However, she also acknowledged that not everyone reacts positively: “There are many people who don’t like my relationship, who don’t accept it, and who don’t understand that long-distance relationships do exist and can be genuine.”

According to what he said, he has occasionally responded to negative comments with the intention of making his videos go viral and generating income from TikTok.

However, he has decided to stop doing it: "I really don't need that money to live, to eat, to travel, or for absolutely anything. And honestly, I also have no desire to reach new people through those videos responding to people that ultimately don't add anything to my life," he stated.

The testimony has generated various reactions on the platform, where the young woman usually shares moments from her life and personal reflections in a warm and authentic tone.

Frequently Asked Questions about Long-Distance Relationships and the Cuban Reality on Social Media

How does @lisiminivlog defend her long-distance relationship?

@lisiminivlog defends her long-distance relationship expressing that it is stable, healthy, and supported by many people around her. She also emphasizes that the relationship is genuine, despite the criticism she receives.

Why does @lisiminivlog choose not to respond to negative comments?

@lisiminivlog has decided not to respond to negative comments because she doesn't need the money she could earn from viral videos and believes that those interactions add nothing to her life.

What impact do long-distance relationships have on the perception of Cubans on social media?

Distance relationships, like that of @lisiminivlog, generate both support and criticism on social media. While some users see them as a testament to true love, others do not understand how they can work, reflecting the diversity of opinions on these relationships.

How do social media influence the lives of emigrated Cubans?

Social media is a crucial tool for Cubans living abroad to share their experiences, reflections, and the reality of their lives outside the island. They also serve to highlight contrasts with life in Cuba and maintain emotional connections with their homeland.

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Yare Grau

Originally from Cuba, but living in Spain. I studied Social Communication at the University of Havana and later graduated in Audiovisual Communication from the University of Valencia. I am currently part of the CiberCuba team as an editor in the Entertainment section.